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What's worse, a liar or a slut?

I sort of told my friends that I have had two boyfriends (not at the same time), and both I have snogged with tongues and I haven’t even had a proper boyfriend yet. Because I am only 13, loads of girls, including my friends have called me a slut. Other girls in my class have tongued boys but no one calls them sluts. What do I do? Shall I admit that I made up the boys and have no friends at all, but at least I wont be a slut, or shall I keep the lie going, be called a slut but ignore it and still have the people I care about around me?

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Answer #1

Liar

Answer #2

It’s worse to be a liar…if these friends of yours are true friends, they deserve to know that you’re honest with them.

There’s nothing to be ashamed of, you’re only 13 and nobody really expects you to have armfuls of guys hanging around, and making out with two boys doesn’t even bring you close to being a slut.

Answer #3

I actually think I may disagree. If you get labeled a slut now being the age you are you could carry that on for the rest of your life , I was labeled that when I was 12-13 and I lived up tp every litlle part of it, you seem to be what people say you are , admit you said it the wrong way and move on, respect yourself and dont let people get you down.

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