What to do when he pops back into my life?

Ok so I checked my myspace and I had a messsage from my ex. I have not seen or talked to him in like 3 years or so. He was the love of my life or so I thought and now I am confussed. We were together for over 3 years, however the whole time all he did is run around on me and I am pretty happy now with my fiance. When I opened that message I felt all those emotions again. The good and the bad. Truth is I am a grown a** woman now. I can’t play all his highschool games. What should I do?

Answer #1

Ask him why he decided to come back, just to clear things up. If you walk away from the problem, it will come back to haunt you. But if you have a understanding of everything & found out why certain things happen, you can tell him you’re happy with your new life, and actually MEAN IT.

Answer #2

message him back saying i’m happy now and i dont want you in my life…you may feel all that now but think hun you did you feel all of it before you got that message??

hope ya make the right choice and its what you want!!

Answer #3

If your a grown woman, you’ll ignore his message, and leave it at that. Its funny how things seem to pop up when we least expect them. Maybe he cant get/keep a girl, so he thought he’d just go back to the past, and see what his ex is up to. Keep in mind why you two broke up, and just get on with your life just as you have for the past 3 yrs since hes been out of your life! Some things are better left in the past, and ex’s are number one on that list! If you dont reply, he should get the hint! You will have a much happier future with your fiance!!

Answer #4

I think you should be sarcastic, and say wow- is so great to hear from you, and i hope you are doing well. Things in my life couldnt be better and I am so happy right now I can burst. Then you tell him, you are apart of my past and learned that your future is goin to be great so have a nice life and I hope you find the happiness that you have. and leave it at that, and dont talk to him ever again.

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