What my guy would like.!

You’re welcome. Could he be nervous because you are younger? I am assuming it is legal for you to be having sex. He might be worried about pressuring you as you are inexperienced? The thing to try and do if you can is find out if he can get it up on his own. It may be tricky to bring up, but maybe be a bit jokey or admit you got horny last night and were touching yourself thinking about him, does he ever do the same? Somehow work it into the conversation to see if he is fine on his own. If he is then the problem is mental not physical.

The only way to get over a mental barrier is patience I am afraid. It sounds like you are doing everything right. Have you two discussed this situation at all?

Funmail me if you prefer to talk about this more privately :) I don’t mind where you want to discuss it.

Thanks so much your advice is great(: I’m sure going to havt to try some of that stuff, hahh

Thanks so much guys(: more advice is greatly apprecicated. As for help what are some things I could do to try and turn him on?

I don’t think it’s your fault I had this problem when me and my ex did it too much mix it up a bit play with him as if your gonna give him head even if you don’t I’ m sure that would work trick him kinda he has to focus on what
he’s doing and that might get his attention

Thanks for the advice, but the thing that gets me is that he is very experienced, so I do not understand why he can’t get it up. He has been in many physical relationships previous to ours. He is two years older than me, but at times I feel as if I am more experienced than him which is debateable. We usually take it slow and progress from there and he always tells me how comfortable he is around me. This really confuses me.

He is probably nervous, is he quite inexperienced with sex and physical relationships? I would say just make sure you don’t pressure him. Make your time together relaxing and comfortable and spend plenty of time kissing and just getting to know each others bodies, before rushing straight to that part of him. Be supportive, let him know how much you care for him and don’t make a big deal out of it. He will thank you for it :) Don’t worry, it will happen eventually, but you have plenty of time so just take it slow, it will get it up when he is ready.

Nibble on his neck guys like that and play with his balls