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What is wrong with me? I seriously can't cope anymore..?

So I’m 14 years old, My parents are divorcing, barely communicate with my brothers and my friends just aren’t that helpful. I don’t really go to school because I don’t think it’s fair on others that I’m moping around all the time and not giving them my full attention, I lay in bed all day crying.. I sleep in the day and sit up at night so I don’t have to talk to anyone. I used to self harm and I’m seriously considering it again, I always think about killing myself, I’ve attempted several times aswell. My parents don’t let me out, I have no social life.. tbh, if I was allowed out I personally think I’d be a different person, because then I feel I have something worth living for.. How can I feel happy again?

Thankyou for taking the time to read this and no nasty comments, please. xo.

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Answer #1

Well, we normally delete questions if there is a risk to suicide in them.

But let me tell you this; Divorce hurts everyone in the family, but on a lighter note, it can be a good thing. If your parents normally fought all the time and you were in the middle of it you won’t be placed in that situation again. Sure you might have to go visit them and all, but they should be happier. I can’t tell you anything that could cure your sadness, but I can tell you that life is hard. We all have hardship and struggles in life, but taking the problem head on and achieving success is the goal.

I understand there’s a time to mourn, then there’s a time to try to get over things. You may not get over it fully, and it’ll still be there and you’ll look back on it. But remember this; Nothing is worth killing yourself over. There’s tons of things worth living for. You have your entire life ahead of you, don’t throw that away now.

While you might find it hard to communicate with friends and your brothers, I’m here if you need to talk. But if you’re strongly thinking about harming yourself, or something worse. I advise you seek professional help, anything to deal with self harm is serious. I used to be into all that, until one day I looked back and thought “Wow, that’s really stupid of me to do this.” NOTHING is worth harming yourself over. Remember that.

Like I said before, if you want someone to talk to, I’m usually around here.

Answer #2

dont kill your self,everything that happens in life happens for a reason or god wouldnt let it happen,my parents got devorced when I was about 6 and my stepdad just died not to long ago:( it took awile but the best thing to deal with problems is just to face them. trust me when life gets worse for you just remember that it can only get batter in the end:)

I hope this helps:)

Answer #3

the thing is honey that divorse is everywhere it hapens to millions of kids.

Also self harm. Not ok it will affect you I can tell you from expiriance. Sounds like you are depressed. You are staying away from people and that is wrong too so go to school talk to a trusted adult that is why when you are going trought such things councelors school teachrs adults in general are there to help you.

Answer #4

Whats wrong is because you did self harm in the past, your parents might be afraid to let you out cause you could go somwhere else to hurt yourself. Staying at home doesn’t help, you need to go to school not only for your education but going will force you to interact with other people, which is just what you need. And at school you have access to guidance counselors who can point you in the right direction and help you reach feeling better and being able to cope.

Perhaps talking with a guidance counselor when you go back to school (you need out of the house) they can communicate to your parents that you need to be able to go places/do stuff/ have social interactions.

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