What is wrong with little girls these days??

I don’t like how girls are nowadays either. A lot of things come together to make teens go around with the notion that they’re ready for sex. It clearly isn’t like that.

I suppose the first thing you can start with is the age that these kids are in. Most have just started puberty and if you didn’t know, puberty defines itself as the functioning of the sex organs. A chunk of hormones are going out and telling the body to speed up the growth process. Right about now a girl can pretty much be drawn to sex and orgasming because it’s new to her. I think you can take it as being curiosity stricken.

Then the media goes off and show girls just how wonderful sex can be (it clearly isn’t that great). Obviously it adds to the fascination that these girls already built up about sex. Friends usually add to this as well, most of them are going through puberty as well. Boyfriends usually add to this too, not all of them but some or most of them do. I’m not sure if my notion is right but I think guys usually sort of persuade their girlfriends to have sex. Or the other way around, I’m not sure how this goes about but either way, it happens.

The real problem I have is girls getting pregnant because apparently they didn’t know they had so many contraceptive options. That’s when it really bothers me, why? Technically the girl just managed to screw up her life as well as the babies life in one day. That’s what I have a real problem, messing up someone else’s chance at living before they’re even alive yet.

Anyway, not caring about love is a bit complicated. I think you don’t but that doesn’t mean a lot of people don’t. Now love is another issue dealing with pregnancy and teens. Most teens do have sex out of ‘’love’’ really? It’s not love it’s something called infatuation and apparently they can’t really handle it too well. From what I’ve seen, after a month or more, the girl or the guy want to take the next step because they ‘’love’’ each other. I wish these kids would understand what is it they’re feeling. That’s not gonna happen though.

I think my opinion came out a bit mean, my apologies for that.

Yup aliyah0137 and hysterical are right. Also the parents have something to do with it too. They need to take the time and talk to their kids about all this stuff. I guess that not too many of the teens share an open relationship with their parents though. However, that shouldn’t stop the parents from explaining all the hromones their feeling. I don’t think love has to do much with teens having sex now a days. Im not saying some couples don’t love eachother, but how many of the guys do you think are ganna stick around after telling their girl “I love you” and having sex and the girl wind up being pregnant? Not many. It’s rare. All these kids can do is think with their genitals until someone sets them straight. Its not love, it’s lust. in my opinion. Besides, theres nothing wrong with being a virgin. im 16 and very proud to be a virgin. These kids have got to calm down and start thinking with their brains and not their body parts.

don’t stuff us all into the same category. =]

I’m 14, almost 15, and a virgin. plan to stay one until marriage.

but I understand what you mean. I think media plays a big part in exposure. and, I totally agree with hysterical. =]

Sex is more widely accepted this generation. People used to get stoned for doing it, shunned, things like that, back in the 60’s. I dunno about the wanting babies part, but more people are sexually active now that ever.

meliisssa - yeahh, and? and Me and my boyfriend of 2 years, just recently started having sex. Not cause we’re horny little teenagers, but it brings us so much closer, and we both agreed that we were ready. The stuff we do tho, we wouldn’t do if we didn’t love eachother. Some people aren’t as fortunate, and they just do it to do it, or they think theyr ready adn their not, or they get pressured then dumped. But, it’s not like that for everyone.

lol in your other question you said your 13 and having sex hahaha, wht is wrong with kids ey;)