What is up with this guy?

I’ve liked this guy for about 5 months now and he knows it,I took it upon myself to tell him I liked him,he told me all he could offer me is friendship because he had a girl ok,fine,he told me he appreciated me telling him myself, my friend said he was all flattered and smiling from ear to ear..fast forward about 4 months,the wednesday before all heck broke loose,he was really flirting with me big time(I have witnesses),then the next day when I wasn’t there,he goes up to my friend and asks her whats up with me that I seem to be pressuring him,I wasn’t,I have back up on this too,I never touched him on the arm,I kept space between us never got up too close,we just picked on each other all of the time and acted like the friends we agreed to be,anyway,he tells her to tell me to not even talk to him,he doesn’t even wanna be friends,and to leave him alone,yes,I figured his girl found out and had a cow,but why didn’t he come to me? He still asks my friends if I’m working or still around,I ignore him and turn my back to him when he comes into the same room,he clears his throat..sorry so long,but it;s the only way could explain,so whats up with him? Is he just a snake are what?he’s getting on my freaking nerves…=-\

Answer #1

I’d say his girlfriend got upset and he made it your fault, and prob convinced himself of this too. He went and complained about you and made all that noise about you so his girlfriend would believe him etc and he didn’t have to feel guilty for flirting. But he obviously craves the attention too, if he is still trying. Be polite if he speaks to you, but other than that, ignore him.

Answer #2

He sounds like a complete jerk, I don’t really know his problem, but it’d probably be best to ignore him. Don’t be mean about it tho, like if he says hi, say hi back, but like don’t too close to him agen I guess… if he confronts you, you should tell him that you dont want to hafto look out for his mood swings or watever is going on. and you should ask him wats wrong just in case there’s an actual reason and he’s going thru sumthing. =P I dunno this guy, so he might b a jerk or a really nice guy. if you really wanna b his friend you might wanna ask him? depends on what you think of him

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