How can I keep my boyfriend and my family?

I have this boyfriend that I love so very much and I don’t want to let go of him, but my family thinks negative things about me. They don’t trust me and I am very stressed out and getting tired of this. I really wish I could move out and go and me and him get our own house, but am only 15 and I have 2 more years in school! How can I prevent my family from talking about me so badly AND still see my boyfriend?

Answer #1

i mean ya you are to young to move out. but moving out is easy to say but sometimes hard to do. but ya i think you did something for them to not trust you. but gain your trust back. i mean maybe they will let you see your boyfriend and stuff. because you are to young to move out. dont rush it. you can get a job you can work with a working permitt that will keep you occupied from just sitting at home thinking about him. then maybe you can save money up and get your own place. when you turn 17. but really keeping you away from somebody you really want to be with and see is only going to make you sneak and be with him and make you want to be with him more. i mean me and my boyfriend want to have a babv. we trying to get our own place. i have a job and he do to i just got to save money burns a whole in my pocket. im already ready to spend money. i got to get me some micros next week. i cant keep money for nothing but i got to learn how to budget my money. back on you. if your boyfriend fel like he cant see you when he want he might cheat because he might feel like you cant go no where. see he is old enough to move out well i know in ga when you are 17 you are old enough. but i dont know if its the same where you stay. but i was gone say get in a after school activitie but i forgot they dont trust you so they might not let you. well one thing you can do is get a work permitt from school and fill it out and take it with you when you get a job cause you will need it. do something so you want be so miserable at home everyday

Answer #2

Dear shae_shae15, For some reason your family doesn’t trust you…now this just didn’t happen for no reason. Something happened that made them feel this way. Perhaps you did something in the past that makes them feel this way? I am assuming they are not letting you out at night or after school to see your boyfriend…So they think you’ll be doing something you shouldn’t with him. Are they right? Perhaps you won’t come in on curfew. Are they right? Perhaps you don’t keep your responsibilities in the home. Are they right? Perhaps you argue with them. Are they right? All these things would keep them from giving you this freedom. You might have to gain their trust back or show them you are responsible for all the things above I mentioned. Talk maturely with them asking for a date…if you follow all the rules by this date would it be possible to be able to see your boyfriend. Don’t make the date a week later that isn’t logical…you must listen to them and even if the date is 6 months away agree to their rules…it is the only way. Getting into another argument will not help your case. Sue…good luck

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