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What is he trying' to do?

My “friend” Matt wrongly accused me of spreading rumours. I and him had a bit of a fight. He said I had an “attitude” and I was polite. Then, He said “if you can’t admit you did a wrong and tried to spread a rumor or make me and [name disclosed] break up. Than I am going to make you pay.” Or somethin’. So today and I think yesturday, I asked my close friend what Matt was feeding him. He stuttered and Matt walked by and said “why are you talking to COLE? You are a disgrace!” HE then ran to him, leaving me behind. I NEED that friend. What should I do?

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Answer #1

Well, firstly, as your quotes in your first sentance suggest, you understand that Matt is not truly your friend. He’s being stupid for some reason or another, but trust me, if this friend you “need” is willing to give you up for someone like that, it’s time to reevaluate if you really need him. There are so many other people in the world, why try to salvage a friendship with someone who would believe horrible rumors about you? If he’s really your friend, he doesn’t need your explinations and your pleading and you wouldn’t have to do anything. Maybe he’s just confused, but even so, in a situation like this you can afford confusion. Give him some space and turn to a different friend. Give him time to figure out exactly what he really wants to do.

Answer #2

he is just trying to get under your skin and make you admit you were wrong when you weren’t…just give it time and be strong…if he is a real friend he will realize how much he needs you in his life…and if he doesnt its his loss then and you should just realize then that he wasnt actually a true friend. hope that helps

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