What if I'm in love with another guy?

Well I’m dating this guy and we’ve been dating for ten months now. We love each other and he thinks we’re going to get married. I do too, but then again I don’t. I’m really confused because there’s this other guy …

I have known this other guy for about two years now. We met at the beach and he lives about three hours away. We’ve seen each other a few times, but used to talk nonstop. Plus, his best friend is now dating my best friend and they always see each other, so I don’t see why I couldn’t see him more.

I tried everything possible to be with this guy. Most of the time I felt like he never tried. But just last month we talked - after not speaking for several months. He told me he wishes we could be together and I’d be his forever. He said it’s hard right now to try and work things out. He even said it’s too late - maybe because of my boyfriend? But then he said if we were meant to be like he thinks we are, then we’ll work out in the end.

Well I’m just really confused. My boyfriend is wonderful, but he doesn’t bring to the table what the other guy does. But then again, the same for the other guy.

Honestly, I love them both. And when I think of the other guy, I think of my boyfriend. But when I think of my boyfriend, sometimes the other guys face pops up in the back of my head.

Can anyone help? What does this sound like to you? Just an opinion would help. Thanks!

Answer #1

I’ve been and this situation and I usually pick to stay with the current boyfriend…cause I just remember the reasons I was with him and the first place

Answer #2

Well your obviously confused and if your not sure in a relationship then you should get out. Break up with your boyfriend but don’t date the other guy either. Be single for a while until you find ONE guy that you want to be with. And if you can’t be with him then wait til you can or until you find someone you want more. Never settle for someone just because you can’t have someone else.

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