My girlfriend likes to masturbate with her pillow

well then you obviously dont need to be with her cause especially if she isnt wanting to have sex with you I mean come on

Just because she used to masturbate a lot with her pillow and you dont have sex quite as often does not mean she liked that better than having sex with you.

Masturbation is usually a lot quicker than sex, and since you’re alone a lot simpler, although not usually as pleasurable… logistically speaking, I think most people would masturbate more than they would have sex… it doesnt mean anything…

Talk to her, find out what you could to do to make it better for her, see if there really is an issue (dont keep this thought bottled up, it could start to affect your relationship)

It is “normal” for some girls to play with the pillow..as you may know…:) but I think you should talk with her and try harder to pleasure her and make her realize what she is “missing”…try to arrouse her more then she is doing wit that pillow…I don`t know how to say but I hope you get the idea…Try to convince her that THE PILLOW is the accesory not you :( Good Luck!

I’ve never heard of the word pump being used to describe that lol well have a talk with her the two of you should be comunticating during sex and telling each other what you like/ dont ect if you mean she used to does she still do it? if she does do it a lot, and it affects sex between the 2 of you then both of you need to talk about it ask her what your not doing right in the bedroom, and stuff like that

My wife masturbates by humping her pillow, all the time. In fact, she likes having me watch her do it, which is absolutely HOT, and always leads to great sex!

Dayum… being beaten by a pillow must suck real bad xD i cant imagine how bad the dudes gotta b in bed to fucking masturbate with my pillow…