What happens if your parents aren't your parents

Right my mum is not my mum my dad is not my dad right ? The man who been looking after me adopted me aftre a court case right hes not even related to me but nore is the lady I call mum you might say am upp myy own aaasss but I feel like a fake person as the family I call family arnt my real family and crap like it What to do?

Answer #1

Make the best of your situation - there are others who have it worse - be Thankful you have someone to call Mom and Dad - keep a good attitude, positive outlook, and you’ll be just fine…I wish you the best !!

Answer #2

well they took care of you all your life and if their nice to you keep calling them mum and dad but if not call them what you want to and if you know your parents or something stay with them unless its not that easy. if its not that easy then im sorry

Answer #3

dont feel like that! there your perents now. as long as they love you, you dont really care to much. just let it go. enjoy them like your real perents. you never know when they can be gone too. so love em!

Answer #4

So what if they’re not your “real” parents. They are your parents! you shouldn’t feel any other way. My brother isn’t my “real” brother, but I love him just the same, not to mention I like saying “this is my brother.” He knows he’s adopted, but he does everything for my mom and loves her more than any other woman in the world (even his girlfriend). We have never said, he isn’t our brother or anything like that, and you shouldn’t say that type of stuff about your parents. They may not biologically be your parents, but they love you anyway. I’m sure they’ve treated you well and treated you no different. So just get the fact that you’re adopted out of your head. You have people that love you, so let’s keep it that way, ok?

Much Love, Sillst

Answer #5

ps hes a police officer

Answer #6

grace I talk to your parents all the time and they love you evn though their not bio parents

Answer #7

Anyone can be a parent but it takes love and support to be a mum and a dad. This does not make you a false person. It takes very special people to raise a child who is not theirs.There are plenty of people who grow up with their bio parents who would give anything to be loved and have the support that they need. Be thankful that you have a mum and dad who love you. It is the most important thing.

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