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What ever shall I do about my parents?

parents they suck… ok so I want to go back to Tennessee to live with my mom but my dad is all pissed and want let me go

plus he said when my grandpa comes pick me up he will kick his anus so im really confused on what to do

and plus I have a heart and I fell really bad cause my dad says said it hurts him that I don’t want to live with him

but its not like I don’t want to live with him I just don’t want to love in Michigan

and my dad has always been there for me more than anyone and my mom isn’t really there for me and I want to go live with her but my dad don’t understand why…

I am just way happier in Tennessee its hard to explain but I am not happy in Michigan

I told my dad that he should want me to be happy and he said he does want to make me happy so I said ok then let me go and he said I could but that I couldn’t take my bed or dresser cause there brand new and I understand that

and he also thinks I used him so he could buy me all that then for me just to go back to Tennessee with all the new stuff he bought me and I would never do that no matter what and he believes I would and it hurts me to know he fells that way

what should I do?

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Answer #1

I was in a similair situation, but I was the Mom in this case. My X stole my children from me and said he would kill me if I ever tried to even see them at one point. It’s a long story, but he was mad because I left him (I took the kids with me). Because he was mad, he was always telling me what I could and couldn’t do as far as the kids were concerned and I was very afraid of him. Finally, when the kids were old enough and able to see me if they wished, two of them had resentment toward me because they thought I just wasn’t there for them. Go to your Moms. You may not know the whole story. That’s my advice and I hope it helps. I am probably a bit bias but I know how things can seem one way and, actually, be another. Best wishes to you and your Mom, Carol

Answer #2

Tell him what you just said and if he loves you he will understand!!

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