What does it mean if a guy with a girlfriend looks interested?

So at the gym, some guys talk to me. There’s this one guy, who I think is super hot, he asked my number after a few times talking to each other. I didn’t give it to him though, ‘cause I wasn’t comfortable with it.Later, I found out he was married through researching him on a social site.

There’s this other guy, who always tries to build up a conversation with me everytime he sees me, I find out also has a girlfriend by a mutual friend of mine!

And last but not the least, there’s this other guy. The gym trainer told me he asked about me. One day, he finally had the guts to talk to me. He really seems interested in me. I think he even asks the trainer to help him out in a way. Again, through a social site, I find out he has a girlfriend. I don’t like him tho so it’s okay.

So what does it mean when guys act interested when they have a girlfriend? Does it mean they’re just being friendly? ‘Cause if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn’t be making an effort trying to get to know other guys like that.

Answer #1

Social sites aren’t exactly a good way to truly know if someone is dating. Guys usually get on that junk FOR their girlfriends anyway, so unless it looks like he’s getting on there every single day and talking to his girl, its possible it isn’t updated.

BUT guys LOVE a hot girl, even if they aren’t available, and would likely leave their girl if you were to give them an opening. Yes, that’s sleazy, but its very true. Men are after the hottest tail they can find. Honestly, most of them are probably just looking for a quicky in the bathroom, and will just drop you after that. Anyone giving you his number is probably not serious about his girlfriend.

Take me for example, I’m not going out looking for women, nor would I give a hot girl my number so we could go out later. I would flirt with you, though, and I would fantasize about being with you despite being in a relationship. Even though I’m deeply in love with my girl and would hate myself forever, if you made an advance at me, I’d probably go for it and regret it later.

I just thank God I never put myself in a situation where I might be tempted, lol. Men are dogs, plain and simple. Even the good ones still have trouble staying true to their ladies.

Answer #2

xreply is correct. Guys love a hot girl. But that doesn’t mean they would leave their girlfriend for you. It just means thay would start a physical relationship with you.

I agree that the social site isn’t the best way to determine if someone is attached unless they use it often.

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