What do you do if your pregnant?

Hi…I have a question..its kind of weird…I have this friend who is 1 year younger than me…and she got pregnant because of this party we went to and we were all having sex and stuff and she didnt use a condom…and her mom will kill her if she finds out since she is only 13..so is their like any way to get rid of a baby without anyone finding out about it?…im confuzzled = (

Answer #1

so your friend would rather commit murder than to face concequences? well she shouldnt have been messin around. if your not old enough to have a baby dont go out and have sex. you play the game you pay the price.

Answer #2

the child doesn’t know whats going on anyways if you want to think of it in a better way. and should the 13 year old have to suffer because of a mistake ? yes its a big mistake and it was dumb but at 13 she doesn’t need to have a child shes not even in highschool yet

Answer #3

doesnt that cost tons of money??? we dont have that kind of money..and like before you get the abortion yhour stomach is already big and stuff…we need a way so her mom wont notice anything…

Answer #4

Since you have to have an abortion in your first trimester (the first 3 months) her stomach will not be getting big yet and her mom will not be able to tell from looking at her. Yes it costs money but there really are only 3 options…keeping the baby, adoption and abortion. If she tries to abort the baby herself she could end up hurting herself (or even killing herself). There is no safe way for her to get rid of the baby without getting an abortion. She needs to go to a Planned Parenthood…they should be able to help her. She needs also to make sure this is what she wants to do…maybe her mom would surprise her and help her…you never know, some parents want the best for their kids and they will help them to get it.

Good luck :)

Answer #5

at the same time, just because you made a mistake does not mean an unborn child should pay the price.

Answer #6

abortion. it depends on where you live.

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