What do to please my boyfriend with life?

My boyfriend is 18 and out of school. We see eachother as much as we can then he said he wanted me to move in with his so we could see each other more. I said I would think about it but I dont know what to do.

Answer #1

You need to make yourself happy, then you can worry about making him happy. If you want to move in with him and if it is something that will make you happy and will benefit you then go for it. If its just something you are thinking about because its what he wants then forget it.

You also need to consider the fact that you are still in school and what will the benefits of living with your boyfriend be? Who pays the bills, him, you? Do either of you work? Do either of you drive? What are you doing when you do graduate? Are you going to school or are you staying around and just going straight to work? How long have you been with this guy? Do you see yourself with him a year from now? Two years from now (when you could be in college)?

I’m not downing living with your boyfriend, it can be a lot of fun. But it is a lot of responsibility too. You will have to take care of yourself and if you live with your parents still I bet they do a lot more for you than you realize. I moved out three days after I graduated and I thought I had it made, until I had to play grown up and got screwed.

Just think it over thoroughly before you make any decisions. Consider what is happening in your life, relationship, and school right now. Then consider what you want to happen in the next 2-3 years with your life, relationship, and school. Last think about what sort of good could come from living with him and what the downfalls may be. Hopefully you choose wisely, it could very well affect your entire life.

Cheers!

Answer #2

I dont know how it will help build a solid future. I just want to make him happy.

Answer #3

So…you want to move in with your adult boyfriend when you’re 17, and clearly NOT graduated…exactly how will that help you build a solid future?

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