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What do I tell her

Ok so my best friend told me she is confused about her sexuality. She has dated a guy before and she didnt like it. She told me shes more attraced to girls bust she has never been with a girl. I don’t know what to tell her. She said shes wants to go out with a girl but is nervouse sencen it would be her first and most likeley the other has already been with other girls. Shes also the kind of person who is really shy and quiet unless she knows you. What do I tel her please help

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Answer #1

Just tell her to go for it and ask the other girl out. Tell her not to worry about what other’s think. Also, support her always. Hope that helps. :)

Answer #2

If she’s interested in girls, I think she should try it. So it’s a first date. She had her first date with a guy once upon a time, and now this will be just like that. Just tell her to be honest with the girl she’s going out with. It really isnt a big deal. Most people dont have their sexuality down at birth and a lot of lesbians/bi girls dont try dating other girls till they’re older. This wont exactly be news to any girl she’s going to go out with. Also, it might feel a little different, but once she calms down, maybe she’ll find out it feel right? And as for her shyness, well that’s not really different whether you’re dating a girl or a guy…

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