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I met this friend about 3 weeks ago. He's a cool guy and stuff and tonight he invited me to go to this lounge with him and some friends for some girl's birthday. I know some of his friends that are going and they're not quite my type, plus they're like 6 years older than me. Like they're not mean but just I've never really been close to them at all...and also for some reason I feel really nervous about going because I feel I will be the only one left out or something because I'm the odd one out... The problem is I don't want it to sound like I'm blowing him off and I especailly don't want him to think I'm antisocial, obviously I can't tell him I don't like his friends! So what do I tell him? Should I just suck it up and go, or what :S...
heyy you, I totally know where your coming from. He sounds like an awesome guy, if his friends are not your type, just be chill, if somone asks you about yourself, interests or something just be honest. The worst thing you could probably do is not be yourself. I am really anti-social, but I think you should go out there and have a good time, like what are you going to lose? And if anything, you'd gain some friends. Also don't sit there silently glareing at people. Have a smile on. Be optomistic about it. What happens is what you make happen. if that makes sense o__O anyways, go for it. good luck,dear
I don't see why not just go and give it a try. Give his friends another chance you could really end up enjoying yourself if not you can always leave and go home or meet some other friends just be yourself and outgoing go and start conversations if you doesn't work out then at least you gave it a try even invite a friend to go with you so you won't be alone you'll at least know someone it will take a lot of pressure off of you good luck :]
I know wut you mean, you'd be like the only person who really doesn't know anytoen there. I've been that person...NOT a good feeling. I think you shud just try to talk to people , like walk up to someone and start a conversation. it all depends on you, if you really dont feel comfortable going, just tell him and dont go if you dont want to. would he let you bring a friend, that would be good too.=D good luck
tell him how you feel about the situation and how you really dont know the people. I wouldnt suck it up and go because it'll make you feel left out and out of place. Tell him that you dont think I would fit in and I really dont know your friends that well and I dont want to seem like I am intruding.
I say you should go. Who knows? Maybe you might actually have a good time, and if you don't like it, you can always leave.
oh...and he says I will not be intruding, and he says "see you at 11"
