What do I like this guy, but im to shy to talk to him?

Okay so there is this guy at my school and he’s one of those guys I notice out of a whole growd. He is the most cutest thing I’ve’e ever seen, but the thing is I’m to afraid to talk to him because I’m afraid I’ll say something stupid. The big thing is he’s best friends with my friend Jake so he tells things about me to Andrew(guy I like). Jake told me that he said he liked me back, but I still can’t talk to him because im afraid. Andrew looks at me in the hall way everyday and it’s either look and look away real fast or most of the time he’ll just stare and smile and when I look back and smile he doesn’t look away so we’re standing there just staring and smiling. I don’t know what to do or think. Does he like me? Should I talk to him or what? Please I need your advice here people.

Answer #1

lol wow… I remember these old situations.. never fear though. your job is really simple. yes, he does like you. he clearly showes it in his actions and his friend jake said so too. you have two options. 1 you can ask jake to introduce you two (which will help give you a little courage) or you can go talk to him yourself. I can gaurantee that regardless you will feel like a fool with everything you say to him. I also gaurentee that he will feel more like a fool than you will. im 100% sure that guys are more nervous to talk to girls than the other way around. guys are usually the ones who have to keeo the convo interesting. guys are the ones that have to be funny. all you have to do is be cute. just be yourself. look like a fool. guys like fools sometimes lol. I’m 100% sure as well that the more you talk to him the more comfortable you will feel around him. but the reality is if you like him, you are going to have to talk to him and you are going to have to be embarased as hell. otherwise it wont happen. I know that you wont say anything stupid to him that will make you not like him. guys worry about that more than girls. when the conversation is done, the guy will spend from the time they stop talking to you last to the next time they talk to you holding on to what THEY said to you last and how they felt like an idiot. he will not look at what you said as stupid. he will look at what his response was to what you said and judge that. he wont judge you. good luck, and I kinda hope that you get embarrased (in a friendly way) so that you can laugh at it later. =)

Answer #2

thank you that really helped a lot. I’ll try since I have to do it sooner or later, but thanks again=]

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