What do I do when being intimate with my boyfriend?

I’m 13 and I was in my boyfriend’s room with him laying on his bed today and we had just finished watching a movie. He gave of some signals that he wanted to say something, when he did it was ‘I love you’ I said it back and I meant it. We looked at each other and we both went in for some kissing. We started kissing and it slowly turned into hooking up or what ever kissing with mouth open and tongue is called. He had his arm around me at the time. It went for ages but I didn’t want it to stop but I didn’t want to get to carried away if you know what I mean. I wanted to touch him but I didn’t know if it would freak him out or make it awkward. I didn’t want to mess our first pash up but I really wanted to touch him and I really wanted him to touch me. We have been going out for two and a half months now. Can you please tell me what all the moves are that would give him the best time while we are being intimate? I want to do the best I can for him. Please help !?

Answer #1

I’m not talking about sex.

Answer #2

When you are old enough you will just know. You won’t have to ask other people about what to do and when. I was glad I waited. My husband is the only person I have ever done anything sexually with and I was very glad that I had saved myself for him. You really should just wait. You think you are ready now but it will be so much better when you are older.

Answer #3

wow youu should wait . yourr really youngg still . maybe since youu dont know those answers youu shouldnt be trying them . . ..

Answer #4

you just got to know, if you wanted to “touch him” you should slowly move your hand across his body to the place you want to touch him ;) trust me, it seems awkward, but its really not. Dont get to carried away though, your still young.

Answer #5

lol you are still young when the years go by you’ll feel even more prouder that your still a virgin I have had many chances and never taken any of them. but I think in the moment youll know what to do just make sure you’re are ready physically and mentally. and not just that ask yourself how will you feel afterwards? will you want him to stay with you forever? because at that age it will be different. and if he wants anything let him do the first move. and if he doesnt ask you if you are ready before going further then hes not worth it. and if hes worth it wait at least a year to be with him like that.

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