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Am I being used?

I met a girl at college a few weeks ago,she told me that she had slpit up wih her boyfriend, she knows that I fancy her, she is going to move in with me on wednesday he used her like sh*t and thats why she left him, but , she has been traveling back and forward to see him on a few occasions, she has told me that they have had sex since they have slpit up and she has told me that we will be nothing more than best mates, I found out last nite that they are back together and he has got her hooked on a drug caled white widow sinec hay started going out, I ve told her what I think but she says that she’s big enough to look afte herself,
im gutted for her going back with him, casue I thought that she mite give us a chance but I think im being used buy her for a place to saty and nothing more, what do you think off it all

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Answer #1

hi,

hey then better leave her.I know that its hard to break a relationship with someone very close or intimate, but its better for you to break up because you sid that you met her few weaks ago and with in few weaks you came to know a lot about her in negative sense. you will not be able to predict what her true intensions would be.I am not saying this to you as it is because I have also been in the same situation and  after my break up with her, I came to know that she was more like every guy's girl.its up to you now .just sit down for a while and think wheather you really need that relationship.first few days or weaks you will feel sad and destructed by heart and never try to speak to her after the break up.think wisely and live well.bye .takecare.send me a mail after you break up.
Answer #2

hi guys she has told me that because im 2 inches smaller than her i dont have a chance with her, do you think that height is important in a relationship??

Answer #3

I think I would break away from her. She has had sex w/her old boyfriend. And she just sounds like she wants you for a place to stay. You can still remain friends, but don’t have to live together. That way the door will be open in case you should meet someone else.

Answer #4

Do not let to use yourself. But it is good if you know that time to time breaking up is this “on and off” process. I would not support her financially, but could remain good friend whith who I like to have a nince chat, or else. Getting a girl takes time and energy time to time.

Answer #5

mayby you can help her try and quit the drug she is on and if it dont help kick her out of your room..that can bring big truble. not sure abotu teh relationship thing tho

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