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What do I do if my girlfriend and brother like each other?

My girlfriend revealed to me last night that she liked my brother but loved me. I had told her to not worry about it because I love her enough to not care. We have been dating for nearly 7 or 8 months now and I trust she won’t do anything, but I still feel that I don’t want them to be around each other because I don’t want them to have any more of a ‘liking’ to each other… Yea, my brother likes her aswell. I told her that if she likes him enough, she should go date him, but after a huge ‘argument’, she convinced me she loved me and I believe her… The point is that I want her to be happy, not be guilty, not like my brother, and me to not have hostile feelings towards my brother. (My girlfriend and I are 14.. He’s 12, turning 13 in July.)

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Answer #1

That bad.. sit him and her down and and ask them whats going on and do they have feelings 4 each other and if they do let her go. if you don’t there gonna sneak around. and your brother needs to be hit in eye and he is still your brother in the end.

Answer #2

so heres what you want to do dont let them hangout alone a bond will for and it will make drama I was in the same shoes awhile back talk to your brother dont tell your girlfriend just keep cool and look for signs of flirting between your girlfriend and bro an keep kool

Answer #3

I honestly don’t know how to answer this… I have no siblings… and the girl I’m with has a sister who I liked a long time ago… it passes. just let time take its course… if you really can’t trust her. and you think maybe she’d step. then talk about it again… and I mean I dunno. see how long her feelings persist… I mean she seems cool for telling you. and also check how much she likes him. ( by the way, why did she have to convice you that she loves you? shouldn’t you already know that? if you doubt it, you might wanna go with that sense.)

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