What do I do if my boyfriend is presuring me to have sex?

girl, you’re 13. you have plenty of time and opportunities to have sex when you’re older. and with the right person when you’re ready and informed about all the things you need to know (protection, stds, pregnancy, etc).

your boyfriend is clearly just wanting to get in your pants. don’t cave in. if you guys break up, move on. if that’s his reason for breaking up with you then its not even worth it to be in a relationship with him.

He only wants you as an easy way to lose his virginity or have sex because he feels like he’s got you wrapped around his finger. Dont give into him hunni. Say no and break up with this loser right away. He doesnt care about you, if he did he would wait until YOU were ready. If you do sleep with him and your not ready you’ll regret it for the rest of your life. Please dont do it, respect yourself and your body. He doesnt deserve you.

He sounds like he’s horrible. Dont do it. You dont know the risks, you could damage your body, get pregnant or get an STD (if he has had sex before) But even if he hasnt, he could have been born with a STD. If you do it, you’ll be screwing up your life, think about it. If you dont do it, he’ll break up with you. Is that really the relationship you want with the boy that you want to lose your virginity to?

Depends, do YOU want to have sex? Maybe you do? Sounds like you don’t. And if he breaks up with you over that, than congratulations, you have rid yourself of a selfish fucker that had zero regards for your feelings. Essentially he’s threatening you into fucking you by offering some ultimatum (that being your whole relationship). Do what you feel comfortable with, it sounds like losing him won’t be a real loss.

don’t give into him an realy if its your first an he is only useing you them dump him im 14 an I had a guy that only used me 2 give him head, it realy wasnt worth it there is better an more undersanding guys out there right now im with the sweetiest guy in the world we had sex a few times but he asked me the first times he asked I said no an he understood!!!