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ok so here’s whats going on I have a guy who likes me lets call him jim and I have a boyfriend ill call him jack well jim likes me at the beginning of this year and neve told me and now I have a boyfriend he has told me how he really feels , I care about jim a lot but my boyfriend I don’t know what to do. I love spending time with jim and talking to him I dont feel as strongly about jack as much as I do jim I don’t know what to do please help

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Answer #1

Just make sure whatever you do you’ve thought out a lot before telling them. if you like jim better than try it but just make sure your willing to take the risk it doesnt work.

Answer #2

Also remember the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Meaning you may think you want Jim more because he isn’t your boyfriend and you may compare and find reasons why you don’t like Jack to be with Jim, but once you get with Jim you may like Jack more because you will miss him and you always want what you can’t have (even though you can tech. have both it seems like, I just mean in general). You also can’t have your cake and eat it too so you can’t drag Jim along while you are still with Jack because someone will get hurt and you may end up without both options and no boyfriend.

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