what do I do about my worry that the Pill didn't work?

Okay so first of all your first problem. If the pain in you abdomen has stopped I would not worry to much about it. I have had several similar experiences and it turned out just to be what you expected, just a little bit to ruff!. Secondly about the pain whilst having sex I would not worry personaly, most likely it is due to the fact that you needed to wait a little while after the fingering incident. I would maybe give it a week before trying anything again and see what happens after that If it is still uncomftable it could be best that you visit your GP, to be on the safe side. The problem with the next choice pill, if you have not experienced side effects it does not mean that it has not worked, many people take them and do not experience anything whereas some women that do take them do. As long as you took the pill during the time frame and took it correctly the probability of it not working is rather slim. I would consider however that you do not have unprotected sex again more that anything to save you the agro every month, and for your mental health aswell, as I personally remember worry for a entire month several times before my period came and rushing out to the farmacy the first day I was slightly late. If you do not want to use condoms go on the pill, its just as effective if taken everyday and you can get it prescribed by your GP.

So in all I think you should be fine wright now. if you are still worried wait a couple of weeks and take a pregnancy test just to reasure yourself and calm the nerves :). Go to your GP and start taking the pill if not condoms but I really would advise you to use some kind of protection as the withdraw effect is not the best option:). If you dont want you mum to know you are taking the pill I am pretty sure that if you are over 16 you are able to go to your GP by yourself and get it but dont be afraid to tell your mum, I remember telling mine. at first I will admit that it is very cringy having to tell your mum but she will understand that you are taking responsability. Good luck and dont stress to much!! :)