What do I do about this other girl?

I have this boy problem…he sits right behind me and I think we have some chemistry, but then theres the problem. he has a girlfriend. he is obviously into me. like he touches me, not like a tap or a bored kinda thing, like he gives me hints. he went out with this girl -now girlfriend- for a few days, but then she got all p!ssy for no reason and dumped him. I was there for him and kinda comforted him for about 2 weeks. I started giving HIM hints after a while and things were starting to heat up, like I would touch his legs and we would whisper some dirty and sexy stuff to each other, lol. I declined his offer to go to the locker rooms, polietly!! I acted like I was being a prude or something I guess, because he backed off-unfortunately!- for about a day, but then he was back to his normal self. the next week, his ex (girlfriend of only a few days) comes crawling back saying how she was a bitch and needs him. now theyre together again! hes toned down the raunchy-ness so its at a very low minimum, but he still gives me the ‘eyes.’ ya know?? I like the guy but I have no idea what the heck I am supposed to do! I dont want to break them up, because thats not how I am, but then again, I kinda do! what do I do about this other girl? please helppp!!!

Answer #1

I was in your same situation. first you gotta find out how close he is with this girl. make sure you at least have a ray of hope of them breaking up. and if there is, you try your damnedest to try to become close with him. talk with him more. build a good friendship where innocent touching can be involved. also, have friends dig up some dirt from this girl. anything that would make him have second thoughts about her. if you find something that should make you “concerned”, example would be say she cheated on an ex boyfriend. you could come up and say “I tell you this because I dont want you hurt but she has cheated on so and so” this lets him know you care about him. basically the most you can do is just try to show him you care about him. give him hints you want to be with him and that he won’t last with this girl. hope I helped. good luck

Answer #2

You dont do anything. Sorry to say I honestly think this guy wants you for one thing.

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