What do I do about this Love Crisis??!

It’s easier said then done I guess… But thanks.

Drop him. You are young and have plenty of time, and plenty of options. This guy is on the fence, and you shouldn’t be wasting your life worrying about him.

Try talking to him and ask him what he really wants. It’s normal for him to be freaking out. You’re a minor, and if something happens between you two, he can go to jail. But just talk to him. If you end up together, take things slow. :)

You’re right, it really is easier said than done.

But be honest with yourself for a moment. Consider this: at every given moment in a relationship, there is someone who has the upper hand. Do you feel like you have the upper hand, or do you think he does?

If you think he does, then why is he letting you feel like he could love you or leave you? Why is he making you feel uncertain about things?

I feel thatwhen we were in the relationship there was times when I had the upperhand and he had the upper hand.

The thing is, he says that he loves me and, yeah, I know most guys tell me everything I want to hear but, when he ended things he was so upset. The reason he has the upper hand now is beacause I feel like if I push him, it’s making it even harder for him and I don’t like seeing him hurt.