what do I do about a boy?

This boy has a crush on me but he is weird and he is ugly. What do I do?

Answer #1

jades gave you the best advise, but if you told him that you don’t like him , why do you keep saying that you don’t know if he likes you, if hes a good/funny/smart guy and you like him and didnt find out until now, than tell him you like him but if you don’t than don’t worry if he still likes you or not

Answer #2

Be nice to him :)) One day you might end up looking like the weird and ugly one and he might end up looking gorgeous. Atleast that way your not being rude and ugly to him. Rather then telling him directly you don’t like him , tell him why you like him as a “friend” that way he will get the point & suggest some girls that you think have a crush on him… :)))

Answer #3

diseaseus gave a very good example of why you shouldn’t try to converse with him anymore than what you just have. Saying ‘’just friends’’ is pretty much torture for that guy, he is going to have the chance to talk to you while you think he knows his boundaries which isn’t true. Talking to him while you know that he likes you will get him to like you even more. Then when you do find someone that you like it gets even more complicated for him because now thats when he has to accept rejection. Instead of making it harder for him, just don’t say anything.

Answer #4

Please, whatever you do, don’t tell him you want to be ‘’just friends’’. Trust me, for his good, don’t lead him on with friendship to be nice. Just tell him that you aren’t interested and there’s nothing he can do about it. I was the ‘’weird and ugly’’ kid in this situation once, she didn’t want to hurt my feelings so she pretended to like me (like a friend) just so I wouldn’t be let down.

After all was said and done, I would have rather just forgotten her. =D

Answer #5

He’ll get over it, you did what you had to do. End of story, if you intrude more on him then your giving him the idea that you care about him which will give him the likely assumption that you like him. Stay away from him until you know for sure (Ex: He calmly walks up to you and says hello) that he doesn’t like you.

Answer #6

But I did whatever and I dont know if still likes me

Answer #7

I did tell him but I dont know if he still likes me

Answer #8

Let him know you are not interested in him. Leave out the why. Just be straight to the point.

Answer #9

u could always just tell him you dont like him. and say it directly, not just hint after hint, untill he gets it

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