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What to say to this bartender?

I went out last week to a bar to play in a poker league. When I got there I saw someone that intrested me, she was the bartender. I would like to talk to her more and see if she is intrested. We had some small talk, the usual bar stuff last week. I’m thinking of going tonight but I’m not sure what to say to her or what to talk about. I’m a pretty quiet and shy person, if that’s any help. Any help you can give would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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Answer #1

Bartenders are there to tend bar. Most of the time they do not like distractions, or feel that they need to “babysit” someone that has a crush on them. Remember, they have access to everyone that comes into that bar, so they have their pick of who they want.

Answer #2

If she remembers you from last week, say, OMG, I am so amazed that you remembered me!

She’ll either say that you’re unforgettable OR that she has a really good memory. Either way, it’s a nice opening for more smalltalk. Ask her how/why she became a bartender and how does she deal with the constant attention from men?

If she doesn’t remember you, go talk to another bartender :P

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