What...did we just have sex?

If it went in - even just a little - you’re not a virgin.

Um no, I don’t think so…

In all technicality the true definition of intercourse or lose of verginity/ virginity is to be penitrated by a penis. I’m really not to sure is this would be considered intercourse, I would think your hymen would have to be broken and or ripped or stretched( not all women have a hymen that will necessarily ‘break’.

me and my girlfriend had the same issue. it hurt her until after the 3/4th time. she had to get used to it. the first time we just stuck it in, thrusted a bit and then stopped because it hurt her too much. I think that we were considered to have lost our virginity. or you can say you’re half virgins.. that means your boyfriend busted half a nut =) lmao