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What did I do to deserve getting blamed for him cheatin on his girlfriend?

This guy was dating a chick for over a year and a half and he’s been cheating on her the entire time. He flirts with me all the f’ing time. He’s called me asking to have ohone sex with him, he’s sent me nude pics and asked for nude pics, and he’s sent me dirty text messages. 

 WTF is this guys deal.???

so his girlfriend is a friend of a couple of my guy friends and they just couldn’t hold it in anymore. they told her and now he f’ing calls me screaming at me saying its all my fault!

How the f is it my fault?!?!?! He's the one who cheated on her. NOT ME! I took no part in this! Oh and he completely turned her against me because he told her that I was the one calling him and sexting him, and sending him pics. F

no! other way around! 

 I hope this a-hole gets his a handed to him! He's nothing but a playa! 
But answer me this, is any of this my fault? Should I be the one getting screamed at over the phone? Am I the one that broke them up?
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Answer #1

You didn’t do anything wrong. You were in a bad position - clearly you can’t go to her and say “look what your boyfriend is doing” so you had to say nothing.

The only thing I would say is ask yourself if you made it clear that he needed to stop. If you didn’t then you encouraged it. If you asked him to stop, then you couldnt have done anything else (and in that case he is a weak weak individual).

However, don’t take this too hard on yourself. Just remember, she knows what he tells her, and if he tells her this, she is likely to believe it (she probably felt love to some degree for him).

The best thing you can do is to just say when she yells at you or he screams at you “why are you calling me… you knew you had a girlfriend”. If he keeps calling, keep hanging up. Play it cool, avoid the drama. He will come off looking like the psycho loser.

And as to answer your question as to why. The guy is a guy who thinks everything should work out for him. It isn’t going his way, and he is having a hissy fit and wants someone to blame - he is too weak to look in the mirror. He was too weak to leave her (he couldn’t have been happy) and he was too weak to approach you in a respectable manner. As a result, the reason boils down to one word. Douche - which is what he is.

Answer #2

Oh dear, this happens to be one of those guys that just gives men a bad name all the time.

Apparently he found it very convenient to simply point the finger at you. I feel terrible for the girl that is dating him, such a man is pretty much trash, if you ask me. When she does find out about all of this she’ll see just the type of guy she chose. Maybe after she does find out you can try and be her friend again, friendship does blossom in the midst of heat sometimes. This isn’t your fault at all so you have nothing to worry about.

Hope this helps.

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