What could I say to make him stop?

Okay so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. He smokes weed on the ocassional time for no reason.. like he says that “he wants to try what he wants in his teenage years” but I don’t understand why he needs to. I absolutly hate it when he does it and I have cried about it. He knows that I hate when he does it but he still continues to do it. What can I say to him to really make him stop smoking? He smokes like once every 3 months or something so it wouldnt be that hard to give up. Is ther anything I can say that will really make him stop for sure?

Answer #1

I use to smoke weed so I no where he is coming from but my girlfriend broke up with me after 2 years. so it was devistating. Tell him you might brake up with him or tell him that he will lose everything. Beacuse after my girlfriend broke up with me I stopped completely. hope I helped:)

Answer #2

thanks so much :)

Answer #3

No.

I have been in that situation and eventually we broke up and to this day..well last time I saw him which was 3 years after we broke up he was still smoking. You cant make someone stop what they dont want to. He will stop tho, I knew a lot of people that just wanted to try everything they could in their young years while they could just have fun, they have experiences and stories, but they have all pretty much stopped. Just hang in their, he knows your oppinion, but you cant really press it to much without possibly loosing the relationship.

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