What could I do to get my husband to have sex with me more often?

Have you spoken to him about it? It could be that he is tired or depressed and do not feel like having sex and then you BOTH need to find a solution regarding it. But you can’t figure it out without bringing him into the picture.

This happens a lot more often then you think so don’t feel that he doesn’t love you or that you are an exception. Lots of couples have ups and downs in their sexual lives and the best way to make things work is by talking about it. True there are moments where one is tired, depressed or concentrating energy elsewhere but this doesn’t mean that communication is not possible. Many couples suffer from routine and need to make an effort to put a bit of magic back into their sex lives. Changing places, times, positions or playing games are all possibilities to make sex more fun. The most important thing is to avoid making it a chore or something that is forced. Like everything is life, couples need to work on this aspect of their relationship together and take into account that sexual desire or needs are not static but ever changing. The most important thing is that you start by talking about.