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What could I do to get my husband to have sex with me more often?

We have sex but not that often!! I want it all the time but he never wants it!!! sounds werid but true.. usually its the other way around!! what should I do?
I feel like he doesnt love me anymore?

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Answer #1

umm well why does he not want to? If he is tired then okaii but if its not that often then maybe you could tease him a bit and make him want you. maybe a strip tease? Surprise him one night with a romantic dinner with wine then a bath or shower together to slowly spice things up and make you both more relaxed and in the mood, if you have a bath I think there is a fragence you could put in that wakens sex hormones or something, and maybe a back massage for him and tease him a bit, then see what happens. If you usually only have sex in bed or something then do it somewhere else, experiment and find out different methods of turning a guy on and try new things out so that it is exciting and something new he will enjoy. hope I helped a bit =)

Answer #2

Have you spoken to him about it? It could be that he is tired or depressed and do not feel like having sex and then you BOTH need to find a solution regarding it. But you can’t figure it out without bringing him into the picture.

Answer #3

This happens a lot more often then you think so don’t feel that he doesn’t love you or that you are an exception. Lots of couples have ups and downs in their sexual lives and the best way to make things work is by talking about it. True there are moments where one is tired, depressed or concentrating energy elsewhere but this doesn’t mean that communication is not possible. Many couples suffer from routine and need to make an effort to put a bit of magic back into their sex lives. Changing places, times, positions or playing games are all possibilities to make sex more fun. The most important thing is to avoid making it a chore or something that is forced. Like everything is life, couples need to work on this aspect of their relationship together and take into account that sexual desire or needs are not static but ever changing. The most important thing is that you start by talking about.

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