What can I do, was pregnant, lost baby, boyfriends up?

I’m sorry for you and your boyfriend’s loss, but honestly at 16, maybe it just wasn’t meant to be. I can’t imagine how painful a miscarriage would be but I understand your confusion and hurt and wanting things with your boyfriend to be like they were when you were pregnant, but the best thing for you and him is to work on your relationship before you bring a baby into the picture. He may be acting different right now out of sheer grief and it may be nothing personal towards you. It may be that your relationship has run it’s course and he is rethinking his decision to be with you. You are both very young and a lot of couples that start dating as teens, don’t make it to marriage or if they do, their marriages don’t always last. No matter what the case may be, see your miscarriage as a second chance. A second chance to work on your relationship with your boyfriend, a second chance to wait until you are out of school and able to give your child a better life and a second chance to create a family when you and your boyfriend are ready, not just because of a mistake. Let your boyfriend have all the time he needs…you’re 16. You have plenty of fertile years left and waiting a few years would be the best thing.