what can I do about this boy I like?

First thing, stop obsessing. That includes thoughts and behaviors. Lets start with behaviors because those are easier to control. Do you doodle his name? Look for whether he’s online, look for him at school, have pictures, have other sorts of reminders? Delete him off your messenger, a social site, phone, whatever… Stop trying to find him in school. Get rid of the other reminders. Put everything in a box, and leave it in a closet, under the bed, whatever. Just until you’re ready to get rid of it. Then the thoughts. Just tell yourself, stop, whenever you think of him (you can snap a rubber band on your wrist, this sometimes helps) and then distract yourself. if you’re in class, pay attention to your teacher. if you’re out of class, do something else.

and know he doesnt think im desperate… well I don’t know he only said that we dont have anything in common becuase I asked him to tell me what he thought of me.

Ok. I’m going to try to put this as nicely as I can. Get a clue. The guy doesnt like you, he’s not interested in you, he’s tried to tell you as nicely as possible, and you’re coming off as this desperate girl he cant get rid off. He’s obviously too nice to say it outright, but he really should just tell you.

how do I get over him though ?

wow. ok. lets examine the evidence

‘I’ve been trying to hangout with him for a while. but it never works out hes always busy according to him’

ok, if a guy liked you, he’d go out of his way to make time.

‘according to him we have nothing in common ‘

this is polite guy speak for, I’m not interested in you, I dont like you

‘he ses that im just some random person to him’

uhm, so, we’re moving past the ‘I’m not interested’ to ‘leave me alone’

‘he was just like … hi? in the way like you know why are you talking me kind of voice’

self explanatory? he wants you to leave him alone

‘when I ask him to hangout hes just like well ill check and see if I can.. or he’ll make up a lame excuse’

he does not want to hang out with you

‘he’ll say I guess we could ill let you know what time I could meet you at the mall. and he doesnt’

he does not want to hang out with you

‘ill message you later and let you know about us hanging out. and he doesnt!’

he does not want to hang out with you

look, I’m not trying to be mean. I have absolutely no idea what social skills you’re missing whereby a 1000 hints have flown right over your head.

He should tell you he does not like you. But he appears to be a nice guy. So he keeps talking to you hoping you’ll get the hint. Give the poor guy, who is probably referring to you as a stalker at this point, a break and move on.

I agree with Ty too. if he doesnt like u he doesn’t like u . Do something 2 get ur mind off him. Plus there are plenty of other fish in the sea . There will be other guys who like u, the world does not revolve around that 1 guy :). Not trying to be harsh or blunt just stating the truth.