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We're both married but in love with each other!

Ok so we’re both married and totally in love with each other! Now what? He’s ready to leave his wife, Im not ready to leave my husband. We both have children and have talked about us all living together. However this isnt his first time cheating. He swears he would never do that to me but you know how the saying goes once a cheater always a cheater. But with that being said I totally love this man! Im so confused I dont know what to do. I have a relatively normal home life, I didnt go looking for this it just happened. I didnt expect it to evolve into what it has become. I can see myself spending the rest of my life with this man however I dont want to deal with the ex-wife problems. Im so confused I dont know what to do. Sometimes I tell myself why not just have the best of both worlds?! Because I find myself wanting him more and more. Has anyone else been in this position? I’ve tried to break it off but I always comeback. the affair has been going on for 7 months now. I feel amazing when im with him and he claims to feel the same.

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Answer #1

I’m a married woman. I’m in love with a married man, we went to hs together, didn’t know each other then, but we ran into each other recently, and we weren’t looking for this to happen, we haven’t had sex, so you can throw that out the window, it’s more than lust, we are in love. We spend as much time together as possible, haven’t taken it to the bed. I know, we’re insane, but it’s the best form of insanity I have ever felt. If I have to be this way with him forever, I will. I don’t know what to say, we never know what the future holds…

Answer #2

Decide what you want. You cant have both, it is not right to your husband, and he will figure it out. As for once a cheater, uhm wow… could you really be that blind?

Answer #3

yeah lust can fill good but at tha end of tha night hes going to be in tha same bed as his wife,you are crazy if you think something good wiil come of this,your both are hearting someone that loves you. you have no history together just sex ,that will get old and then what ,he will find a new younger lover so you will be old news? ,do this be for he pull your pants down stop him and say ,lets pray together.?he will never call you again ,trust? a married woman did this to me I new what we was doing was wrong and I never called her again///!

Answer #4

Just get away from him. Stay away. You don’t love him; you think you love him. Go with your husband to marraige counseling. divorce is taking longer and longer with this economy.

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