Was it rape?

No it isn’t. He was pestering you for it, but you in the end gave in and just gave him what he wanted, he didn’t force you. You shouldn’t have let him if you really didn’t want to, learn to be stronger and stand your ground.

no its not rape… he didn’t force it upon you did he? like grab your arms and force himself inside of you while you continued to say no… I have been raped before, by my father, and he held my legs over his shoulders and held my arms down while he did the rest… rape is described in my words as unwanted unpleasurable sex, forced penetration… that is what has happened to me, and if you said fine then I don’t think it was rape!

I learned about this through a thorough sex ed class(more than just health class)and even if you said yes yes yes it is rape if in your mind you are thinking no. as long as you don’t want it it is rape!report him!

oh and btw I know this is fake fau!but im only answering it for people who went through this same thing and are looking for answers!

What you endured is definitely rape, and I empathize with you, and hope you are doing well. But what she is describing is ALSO rape.

Being coerced into sex is rape. She was coerced into having intercourse: that is not consent. It is rape.

That is not true, legally or ethically. She was coerced into sex. That is the definition of rape.

It’s good to be strong, but it is NEVER someone’s fault for being raped. It is the rapist’s fault for raping. She was coerced. That is rape.