Was it rape?

yup… rape…and you should let your mom do something about it… just imagine how many other girls he can harm if you dont put a stop to it,

It’s forced sex - which is also called rape.

Your mother is right to want to do something about it - you have been violated.

Babygirl it was definetly rape! & any sexual act performed against your own will is definetly a rape.any man who claims to care for you would never ask or force you to engadge in any sexual activity in which you do not wish to perform.If he does then he is definetly a scumbag,does not deserve your time & above all is a flat out rapist.It doesnt matter if it is your own husband or wife. If he/she says no then one has to respect those wishes. If one goes against those wishes & forces ones self upon that resistant party regardless if the party is even a married couple that individual has commited a rape & can & should be prosecuted as such.

there really isnt anything that can be done about it now… its been a little over 2 weeks.. and I kept putting it off, because I didnt know what to do..

Its rape! x:(

listern to your mom if you repeat nooo over and over agen then its rape but if you let them do it because you want to do it its just sexual contact

Well YEAH! if you refuse to have sex with a guy and he forces you. then yeah. because its against your will.

but if you said yeah, then no, it wasnt rape. but you seriously need to tell somebody about this, because if her carries a gun with him and he doesnt have a licens to, then he could get in a lot of trouble.

yes it’s rape alright,there are pple who you can go to and talk to and dont be afraid to talk bout it because it happens all tha time and people need to hear bout so they can try to stop it . When ever you say NO to something it should stop their but to guys a NO means a YES to them.

By your description it sure sounds like rape to me.

Since you are 18 it is up to you whether you wish to press charges and pursue this. Consider this though, if he gets away with raping you how many other women will he rape?

I agree with both of them ^ its deffinitly called rape, it was against your will. and you had to or he would of hurt you, or even killed you need to make sure this man doesnt do it to anyone else im so sorry what happend.

lots of girls are scared of the guy when he says that but never wanna do something. I dont understand why not. if you care for him get him help by putting him away for a lesson. cause like the others said what if he continues doing it to others. or what if he continues it with you. but as a man, threatening a woman is cowardly and disdain. plus he has a gun. thats a felony and should never put a woman in danger or anyone with that. yes its up to you but dont let it ride. do something. if I am to help women then women themselves should fight for the same cause.

Yes, that is rape.

There are many reasons why women and girls do not want to press charges. For one thing, the legal systems in almost all countries are completely skewed in favor of the rapist. In the US, a military woman was court marshaled for her own rape. There are “men’s rights groups” who try to charge rape survivors with perjury.

Those are worst case scenarios, but rape conviction rates are extremely low. Most women who report being raped are just ignored, and making a police report can be humiliating.

We live in a rape culture. Please do a google search for “rape culture” and you will find many answers to why people do not want to involve the legal system when they are raped.

The most important thing to do when you are raped is take care of yourself. Get support. Their are rape crisis centers and 24-hour hotlines all over the US and Canada who will give you emotional support, legal advice, and more.

Women should fight against rape because it hurts women. Women are not obligated to fight against rape because you do.

You said “but if you said yeah, then no, it wasnt rape.” If you mean that someone consented initially, but then changed her mind, and the dude didn’t stop – THAT IS RAPE.

Maybe I misunderstood your comment. What she is describing is rape. If you “give in” because of coercion, THAT IS RAPE.

i didnt say anything about fighting against rape. i said helping them(women). that could mean anything. and if you are thinking i was meaning physical use your brain. a man wouldnt rape a girl that could over power him. if you are to ridicule me for something make sure you know what you are ridiculing about. i myself dislike that anyone gets raped. and i know it hurts them mentally more than physical (depending on the situation) but i, like i said, dont understand that after it happened and hes gone for a day or a couple hours, why dont they report it? i wish they wouldnt sit there in fear. that should come later. im sure its not easy, but it will keep happening if they dont do anything.