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How can I get out of my house?

i am 16 years old and i am 36 weeks pregnant .. my boyfriend is 18 and wants the responisablity for me and the baby. But my mom wont let him .. and i believe that a baby needs it mom and dad in there life. but i think she wants me to stay at home because she wants another baby but she cant so i think she is goin to try to take over my baby . and i dont want that. But me and my mom dont ever get along . were always fighting . and i dont think it would be a good environment for my baby to be in . i dont even like this environment . Were always yelling at each other. I cant stand it here ..I cant stand it here . i mean if my boyfriend wants to have us in his life and is responsible enough to take care of us. he has a job to support us. Should my mom let me leave ? How could i get out of here ?

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Answer #1

It is extremely hard for a young couple to make ends meet, and when money is short, they soon go to bickering and arguing about the lack of it. This will tear a relationship apart. You can better prepare for your future by staying where you are, and letting the father come ofen, to see you and then to see the baby, and to take an active part in everything, plus paying for all the expenses, which will be a lot. It is his responsiblity to do this, and if he stays at home, he should have plenty of money to take care of everything, since he won’t have to be paying for rent and utilities, etc. it is much cheaper at home, with your parents. and if he is wise, and loving and caring, he will be saving his money, for your needs, when you can be together, It takes an awful lot to set up housekeeping… and this way, you would both be better prepared for your future together, and 18 will come very soon indeed… Be happy counting up all the things that you will need, and making plans.. Quit arguing at home… just don’t do it… spend your energy instead on positive things for your future… If you plan it, it can be a good one, without planning, it is a recipe for disaster, waiting to happen.. God Bless..

Answer #2

As a 16 year old you shouldnt run away and go live with a the father of your baby. Try talking with your mom bout the bad enviorment. if she was a good mother she will understand babies should not be exposed to fighting amoung older people.

Answer #3

you might think that right now about you boyfriend but later in the future, you’ll realize that you really need your mom there. Moms know what’s best for you. And maybe if you try talking to her, and try to work things out more, you wont argue so much. But just dont run away.

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