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What should she do?

okay sorry one of my friends goes with this boy I guess hes okay but her cusions are telling her hes not right in the head like hes a litlle crazy and they are just looking out for her as am I

 she doesnt  know what to do cause we share all information  and I just want her to be happy but I dont want to tell her something and she ends up being sad she knows him but at the same time she dosent 
                                                               what should she do???

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Answer #1

Dear mizzsmith, Thank you for correcting your typing…When our friends make bad choices it is very difficult to speak with them about it. We are afraid they will get mad at us. So you need to be very diplomatic about how you go about telling her. So you simply say that you know of this guy and he has a reputation about being crazy etc. etc. I just want you to know that if it doesn’t work out for you I’m here for you to talk with anytime. Then you let it go…sometimes people need to learn by their own mistakes. By telling her how you feel you have been a good friend. Now be a great friend and step back for her to perhaps learn a lesson. It hurts to see our friends hurt but if she learns this time around she may never make that mistake again. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

We never want to hurt the ones we love, so I understand your dilemma. But if she is with someone that is not all there, and could hurt her in some way, you have an obligation to make sure she is safe. If he’s just a little wacky, and she’s into that, keep quiet because you wouldn’t want to ruin your relationship with her over a guy she won’t even be with in a couple of years.

Answer #3

thanks… how are you

Answer #4

you go girl x x

Answer #5

I don’t understand your question.

Could you retype it slowly and more clearly?

Answer #6

thanks for the advice I’m going to tell her when I build up the courage to xxx

Answer #7

I know hun youll have to retype cause that dont make scence at all sorry x x x

Answer #8

that is very true texaskimmie thanks

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