How many of you think that virginity is a good thing to save until marriage?

If you didn’t save it, do you wish that you did? And will you teach your kids the value of their virginity… depending on what youthink that value is?

My Answers: Personally, I think that sex is an important part of a relationship. You can’t fully know someone until you have experienced sex. What if you to are not a sexual match? That happens all the time, you can’t change your sex drive either. What if you get married and you find out that one wants sex all the time and one doesn’t? What if you get married and one is conservative and the other wants to experiment? This could END a marriage. It could have been prevented if they had known each other sexually as well as emotionally. I didn’t wait obviously. I was 16 years old when I lost my virginity. I have has several sexual relationships in my past, and I dont regret any of it. It was a learning experience, not only about sex but about myself. I will however teach my son that virginity is something that is very special and should only be given away when you are 100 percent sure that you are ready and in love and ready to handle the consequences. Will I be mad if he has sex before marriage? No. I wont.

Answer #1

I agree I dont believe you should wait till marriage, but I do believe in waiting for the right person, I also think that we put too much emphasis on sex and kids of today loose their virginity at age 12 13 because the preasures to have sex. I lost my virginity age 14 I was far too young but I didnt value my virginity, the way I saw it was every1 else is doing it, it cant be that important, its only sex. after it happened the guy who I really liked didnt bother with me I didnt have sex then untill I got with my high school sweetheart when we had sex I realiased I should have waited for him. I think sex these days is far too casual people just do it for the sake of doing it it’s seen as an act of fun when it should seen as a bond between to people, dont get me wrong I enjoy sex as much as the next person but I have learned from my mistake, I think you should value your virginity and I will be teaching my kids about the importance of waiting for the right person x

Answer #2

punkrocker4ever I’m not arguing your point, I think it’s great that you think you should wait until marriage. Although you said, “What if you get pregnant and the guy leaves you?” That can happen in a marriage also. If they guy is going to leave, he is going to leave, married or not.

Answer #3

the unfortunate part of sex is that when young, the body is often ready for it way before the mind is. and when old, the mind is ready way before the body is.

if no one(that would include the men) had sex outside of marriage, there would be a lot less AIDS, herpes, etc.

but marriage is a social construct, not a biological one.

Answer #4

I believe you should wait until you are married. people say I’m crazy for this reason but I don’t care. for me I believe this for two reasons: it’s part of my reigion; and if you do have sex and you end up pregnant, then the guy might leave you. now, would you want to be stuck taking care of a child on your own? not me; I have enough stress on my mind without that.

Answer #5

And also if you practise save sex you won’t get pregnant anyway!

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