Very confusing! :/

Sex isnt a game Hun!! Like it or not, teenagers who have sex are more likely to have negative self-esteem, depression, suicidal thoughts, not to mention the likelihood of pregnancy and STD’s that will affect their future. What teenager doesn’t think they are mature and responsible. The reality is, even married people in their thirties who use birth control have accidental pregnancies. I think parents and educators should focus on helping teens realize the positive benefits of waiting until marraige. How much better sex is in a committed relationship where both partners are only interested in what is best for the other person. How many guys do you think really would say at the age of 14 or in college that they care so much for the girl they want to have sex with that they would committ themselves forever to them. They only want to satisfy their needs and if you’re not doing it for them, they’ll be on to the next girl. How is that going to feel for the girl who has sex with them because she is in love and thinks he has her best interests at heart?

It just makes sense to wait until you have the assurance of the other person that they will be there for you no matter what, not leave you because you won’t satisfy them sexually or because your pregnant or because someone cuter and more exciting comes along.

There should be mutual love, trust, respect that just doesn’t come easily and kids shouldn’t think they have to give that special part of themselves away so easily either. Sex is a gift and we treat it like it’s nothing, no big deal. If it’s no big deal why are there so many big consequences to it?