Valentiines dayy + biirthdays

I dont know what to get my boyfriend for valentines day!! Well my birthday is 3 days before valentines, and my boy said that he dont want anything, buh I want to get him something, its our first valentines day.. And on my birthday, it going to be our first time.. Having sex.. I really dont know what to do, I am scared, and he said that all he wants is me, also his birthday is like 13 days after valentines day, I want to get him a present, [[also I really want to noe is he poppping my cheery going to hurt a lot?? Because I think I poped it before, one day I went to the bathroom, and I saw my underwear with alittle blood, and it was a week after my period, also I just came back from soccer practice.. Should I feel this way? And why does everyone say it does hurt, buht then they say dont listen to the other people, it doesnt hurt??]] what should I do? Plez help.. ;]]