Unsure about my Boyfriend

Lately I’ve been really unsure about our relationship. I want to voice my fears to him…but he gets angry really easily. I’m afraid he’ll think I’m breaking up with him, which I don’t want to do….I think….maybe….the point is I’m unsure. He’s clingy, he has anger issues, he’s mean to him mother and grandmother….but sometimes he’s wondefull.

I don’t know what I’m asking….maybe I”m just voicing my thoughts. Maybe you could too?

Answer #1

you know if i was you i would break up with him, u may care about him but, if he is mean to his ma and g ma than its gonna eventually happen with u to, caues it sounds that he dont know how to treat women, and if i were u stay away from the men with anger issues, eventually they become really big issues

Answer #2

first you need to work out exactly what you need to say to him, why are you unsure? does he make you feel insecure? etc…once you have established that then you can talk to him. Make it known at the start of the convo that you are not leaving and just need to talk to him as a person, and warn him that if he starts yelling at you you will simply walk out until he calms down becos you dont want to argue, you just need to talk to him about some things and need his reassurance. The fact that you dont feel confident enough to speak to him is scary tho.

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