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Well me and my ex-boyfriend were dating for 1 1/2 years and were engaged we just recently broke up in october and we were on and off after that for about two months. The last time I saw him was a week and a half ago because he said he had’nt seen me in awhile so I figured what the hell.well he asked me if I was dating anyone and he really meant his friend because he had found out we were hanging out and I said no . So I asked him and he said yes I am and he showed me picture of her and then showed me a picture of her boobs. I dont know if hes jealous or what but he is confusing one month he wants me the next month hes trying to make me jealous I need some answers.

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Answer #1

They are called ex’s for a reason. Even if he was trying to make you jealous, it doesnt mean he wants you back. Hes dating someone else now, so he has moved on, you should really do the same. Staying around so an ex can play on your emotions, will only take longer for you to heal. Its over, you just have to accept that and get on with your life. If you still are emotionally attached to him, then trying to be friends isnt going to work! I’ve gone through a lot with my ex, and I wish I would have closed the book right away, but I was a glutten for punishment. You two dated for a year, & a half, it just wasnt meant to be. If you still care, be happy for him.

Answer #2

Yeah he is just trying to play with your head and toy around with your emotions!!! Leave him alone for a month or so and make yourself independant, it may be hard but stay strong, it will show him your not willing to go back but want to be his friend still, stand your ground, if you think what he did was uncalled for (showing you her boobs) then let him know it. Most of all stay strong you are one and you can save yourself from emotional stress.

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