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I don't want to have anal all the time and he does, what do I do?

My boyfriend likes anal. And we’ve done it a few time but it hurts so bad & I dont like doing it but he always wants to. I mean every once in awhile is ok but not everytime we have sex. And I’ve told him no but he gets mad. What do I do ?

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Answer #1

you keep telling and talk to him..because at the end..your just going to give in..and you start going off at him about things..so deal with it now..and talk to him even if he gets mad

I had a friend who ex is always doggy style and rough..every time he got bad when she talk to him..but one day she said it..I want to be with after college..you need to start respecting me..and now he does have slow moments with her..so just be stright foward

Answer #2

Does he use any lube? The best way to start is with you on top, then you can take things at your speed especially going in

BUT, it doesnt seem like you enjoy it at all so since he wants it all the time, ask for a compromise Every time he gets to have anal sex with you, you get to do it to him See if that puts him off, if it doesnt then talk to him about your needs aswell as his x

Answer #3

Break up with him, if he doesn’t respect your decisions, then he ain’t worth your time. Other wise talk to him about him and if he still gets mad, then that is the main time to break up with him. Sex is pretty much about an equal share of pleasure. Not just one person should have the pleasure… You both should. So talk to him about it.

Answer #4

TELL HIM THAT you HATE IT AND you want TO STOP SAY you WILL HAVE SEX WITH HIM BUT NOT ANAL HOPE IT HELPS

Answer #5

but he really likes it , and I want it to be enjoyable for him but like it hurts when he goes in.

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