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Does anyone else think this is ridiculous and I deserve better?

Heres the background: I’ve been with a guy on and off for a year in an online relationship.

Heres the problem: He never has time to talk to me.. And when it seems like he could make time, he doesnt. now were fighting because he said making time to talk to me is ‘an obligation’. “I cant guarantee that after a long day the first thing I want to do is come talk to u”–> he said that.. I mean seriously does anyone else think this is ridiculous and I deserve better? He says he loves me and he says im his best friend but if thats the case why is talking to me an obligation??

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Answer #1

hmm well if he talkin like that then it best to leave him kid you dont deserve someone that says they make time for you when they dont even put d effort of talkin to you maybe find someone else that actually has time to talk to you and make you feel better trust me kid you need someone that will be der for you so instead of hurtin finsd someone better

Answer #2

he’s totally contradicting himself and I think you can do a lot better if someone loves you then they would enjoy talking t you and it should in no way b an obligation. :) hun theres plenty of other guys out there whod b willing to cherish you every moment they got and it might hurt deep inside you if you leave him, but theres always sum other happiness that can one day replace it :D

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