I kind of get mistreated by my parents

same thing is happing to me my b/f hates my dad cause one nite we where on the phone and my dad beat me …I know how you feel and it is a lot easier to give advice than to do it but .. you should try to take charge and live with another family member

Dear ghostlypwincezz_sodamn_glamorous, As an older sister you have to take in to consideration that you have younger ones in an abusive home. This is the primary concern…if you are abused they will be also and you have some obligation in making sure your sibs aren’t abused. Speak with your boyfriends mother. The authorities need to be informed. Do not feel guilty for leaving but you will feel guilty for leaving behind your sibblings…Make sure another adult knows and the proper people are contacted. Sue…good luck

Maybe you could elaborate on exactly WHAT your parents do, that you consider “abuse”…At 14, I was sure my parents were “abusive”…mean, made me do things I didn’t want to do, and never let me do what I wanted to do…but now, on the other end of things, I know they were trying to protect me…from myself. Every year that goes by, you’ll start seeing things more clearly…

It sounds to me like you love your parents…that they’ve instilled in you a sense of responsibility…a faith that things DO change and get better…Those are pretty nice “gifts” to receive from mom and dad…You also sound WAY more mature than your boyfriend…This is a good opportunity to “listen to your gut”…it’s telling you to stay…and that would be the wiser choice.

granny phrannie

hey^^

if your a teenager…sounds like it^^…I would say your just going through “that” stage…im actually going through it right now..lol…I just want evrything to stop and be alone…but thats life…life comes in different stages and you just gotta live and move on and have a mind set that life is full of things that you dont want but have to overcome…anyway my advice is just stick with your parents because in the end THEY ALL you HAVE and all you acn REALLY turn to unless your married and gotten stablle^^

REMEMEBER LIFE IS A TEST^^ doesnt get any better…life is full of obstacles^^

hope you make the right choice^^

peace^^

Ya so I really don’t wanna live w/ my parents anymore because I will randomly get yelled at on usually a daily basis and they take there anger out on me and its annoying and when I was younger my mom slammed me against a wall and tried to choke me. I am now 16 almost 17 and a junior in hs and I really want to stay in the town that I am living in so I can see my friends. I just don’t want to live in my house with my parents anymore I do not know if I should call the police or social services. I just want to get out of here asap

my parents are weirdos/ psycos. my mum has had bi polar for 20 years and lately its gotten really bad.my dad loves her to bits and wont leave her but he just gets sooo angy that he has to do everything that whenever someone has to do something and they get it the tiniest bit wrong he rants and raves about how imperfect we are, how we never help and just screams in my face. im 14 and a girl so I dont take it to well. than hell start blaming you for everything wrong in his life like you are the one that caused every problem hes had since you were born. my dad should just go jump in a creek.

You know what…if you got mistreated by your parents A, you wouldnt want to leave your brother and sister there without you to see that they dont get hurt and B, you would call the cops no matter what because child abuse of any nature is not right. What I think is the problem here is that you are a teenager who doesnt get everything that she wants and thinks she is grown up enough to make her own choices. You are a young girl who does not need to move out of home. Your parents are proberbly worried about you and are getting frustrated (I have a 13yr old I know I do). They should not hit you by any means but in the old days a good smack on the bum never hurt any of those folks. They seemed to respect their parents etc. maybe you should try to think about your actions from day to day and ask yourself how you would react with your own child of 14. At your age boyfriends come and go but to lose your family over one at 14 not worth it trust me.