Trust and love

me && my fiance have been dating for almost two years. And for some reason I just cant be honest to the fullest with him. like I’ve been honest about really important things but things like fun advice I lie. he is kinda controlling and dont want me talking to guys but I understand that completely I did that to my self. but ever since I messed up once he thinks thats all im ever going to do. I love him to death && I want my whole life with him. but why cant I just be honest. && why are we falling apart. I love this man to death no questions asked. help please

Answer #1

I was in the opposite relationship with my boyfriend. He cheated on me once, well another girl kissed him and he kissed her back. He came and told me but I couldn’t forgive him. I wanted to, but its so hard to forgive someone when they cheated on you. Every time he went out I was scared that he was cheating on me again. I felt bad because I started being overprotective about it. Eventually I started to get over it when he would just randomly call me to tell me he loved me, when his mom would tell me how much I mean to him, just those sweet nights we would spend together laying in bed talking about everything. I think if you just start to open up to him a bit, he will realize more what you mean to him, but in all honestly… its going to be so so hard for him. I know how hes feeling right now and its hard to take in. Just don’t complain to him about him being overprotective right now because he has a reason to be. Just start calling him when you go out places and stuff. My boyfriend and I broke up now but we are trying to work on our problems. So thats what I encourage you to do, talk with him about this. Communication is key or else hes going to think you don’t care. You could even write him a letter and just let out all your feelings. Then at the end of the letter put lipstick on and mark the page with a kiss. You need to show him your feelings now before its too late. I hope the best for you, I believe you love him.

Answer #2

I was in the same situation. He was way to over protective and controlling. I messed up once before and he forgave me but I dont think ever really trusted me the same. I think he’s just afraid he’s going to lose you if you talk to other guys. Me and my boyfriend broke up but our planning to just take a break for a couple months and then after summer get back and see how things work. If you feel that the situation is serious I would deff. talk to him about it. Show him you truly love him and I’m sure everything will work out okay. :]

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