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My first wife cheated on me for the last 3 years of our 11 year marriage with my friend and colleague. I’ve moved on, and I’m now remarried to a stunningly beautiful woman. She can be flirtatious with other men, as she attracts a lot of attention. I believe she does love me, but I’m having a problem with trusting her. We had been having a few difficulties and I had found a lot of texts and calls between her and her boss, which she explained was down to him “wanting to know how things were with her marriage”. Is this kind of thing normal?…Am I over reacting?

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I’m no expert, but one thing I’d say you definately need to realize is that these are two completely different women. The first one cheated on you for a reason, and if she was with you for 8 years before the cheating, it most likely wasnt your fault, it was her own problem. If this new woman is as beautiful as you say, its no surprise many other men, even her own boss, are interested in her. You should sit her down and explain how bad you felt when you found out your first wife cheated. Tell her how much you trust her, and how you’re grateful for the relationship you now have, despite any minor difficulties. She should assure you completely there’s absolutely nothing going on, and that she trusts you too. But if you’re still not sure or are suspicious, perhaps you should call Cheaters. :]

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