Is it wrong that I want him to like me?

All right. So in my circle of friends, its us girls and then three guys. I had liked one of the guys all year last year, but long story short, it didn’t happen. Now I like one of the other guys, but everyone (myself included) thinks that he and my best friend will end up getting together. She (as in my friend) han’t really admitted to liking the guy, but said that she would go out with him if he asked. I know her really well, and it seems like she just likes the attention that goes along with us thinking that they have someting going on. I tell myself that I wouldn’t do anything with this guy, even if she doesn’t like him, because she likes the idea of liking him and I don’t want to be the one to take that away from her. I don’t even know if he likes me, I’ve gotten a few signals like he grabbed me to slow dance at a dance and held me really close, but he never calls me and he calls my bff as well as other girls in our circle. What do I do? Is it wrong of me to want him to want me??Please help!!! I feel like a terrible person!!!

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Answer #1

sound to me its almost like the problem i had last year … any way its ok to feel this way(even though i am not good at romance) maybe he does like you because i cant ask the girl i like out so even if she is my 1 of my best friends i could not call her because i get stuck in my head if i call il so totaly mes up if you relly like him figure out if he likes you by asking some1 u trust but he maybe doesnt know and tell her or him to ask him if he likes u while you arent there you rely should talk to your friend not the guy but the girl and talk it out if she is a relly nice friend im sure she will understand and if he does like you and your friend is ok with it if u can ask him out i am to shy to ask anyone out but im sure a pretty girl like youre self can and thanks 4 ur advise u are a relly nice person

Answer #2

As long as he doesn’t think that he can have the both of you…you know what I mean? After all, she is your best friend, and she did tell you that she liked him AND that she’d go out with him if he asked. However, if he makes it clear that he wants to date you instead of your friend, then…I say you go for it. But before you do, talk to her and find out how that would make her feel. Like I’ve said before, SHE is your best friends and NO guy should come between you and your best friend.

Answer #3

i dont think its wrong for you to want him to like you because your friend DOES NOT LIKE HIM! so i think you should go for itt… if she did like him then it would be bad but you cant help who you like

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